Sunday, June 2, 2013

Friday May 24, 2013


Melissa and I woke up around 9:00.  I just sort of laid around in the bed while Melis worked on the computer and answered some emails.  We thought the breakfast provided by Donnington went until 10:00, but around 9:45 we realized that the note slipped under our door the night before said that it only went until 10:00.  We rushed down and arrived in the hotel restaurant in time to have a hurried breakfast. 

There was a taxi waiting to take me to the nearby golf course, and at 10:25 I went to the lobby where we were supposed to meet.  The other guys stayed up the night before extremely late, drinking at the hotel bar, and were also meeting there, albeit groggily.  We finally left the hotel at 10:45, and with a 5 minute cab ride, got to the golf course embarrassingly late for our tee time.  And we were the first guys there.  I don’t know exactly when wee teed off, but the staff had to put us off the back 9, which had less water, but more trees and hills than the front.  The three foursomes each ended up playing a sort of best-ball round, but we ended up quitting after 7, 7, and 5 holes respectively, due to the cold temperatures, rain, and lateness for the scheduled luncheon (I say this in my head in a very English manner, you know shhhejuled…)

The steak sandwich that I ordered in the course bar was excellent, the Guinness on tap sat a little flat on my palate (but still good) and we had a great time all getting to know the rest of us a bit better.  Melissa’s brothers and I took a taxi back to Donnington while the groomsmen went with Siraj to the wedding rehearsal at Highclere castle.

I began to feel a little weird, almost like I ate something bad and felt a bit sick to my stomach.  I laid around until Melis came into the room before the dinner.

Meanwhile…

Melissa met up with the other girls and went downstairs to the Donnington hotel spa.  Each of them got back, neck, and shoulder massages.  The girls staying at the Vineyard hotel went back, Melissa got ready for the rehearsal upstairs, and she then took a taxi with Melanie to the Vineyard.  A van took Melissa and the wedding party to Highclere for the rehearsal.

After the rehearsal, the van took everyone back to Donnington for the rehearsal dinner.

We both came down to the hotel restaurant again for the dinner, my rather reluctantly, and after some table shuffling ended up sitting next to Adam and Devin.  Melissa probably has more to say about the dinner other than “the food was good” but it’s not really her blog, its mine, so I’ll just say that the food is good.  I was continuing to feel sick more and more throughout dinner, and just as the servers brought out dessert, I reached the threshold of my tolerance.  I excused myself from the table, said a quick word to Malorie and Siraj, and headed to my room.  I only had one close-call in the hallway, but I got to the room and laid down on the couch.  For the next 5 hours.

Melissa came up, packed some stuff, and went with Malorie to the Vineyard for the night.  As the matron-of-honor I gave her my permission to abandon me for the night, and off she went.  I was alone with my sickness.
I eventually fell asleep around 1am, once my stomach finally left me alone for a while.  I felt sure that Melissa made a good decision to comfort the bride-to-be.  And there was nothing she could have done for me anyway, other than listen to me gripe and groan.  I just hope Malorie appreciated my sacrifice…

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